I thought that the volunteer’s dilemma was the most interesting part of the reading. I had heard about almost every other theory except for this one. Once I read about it, I immediately thought of multiple examples of this within my daily life. The first example that came to mind was interactions with my siblings. If my parents are not home for the day, usually they will leave us a list of things to do like dishes, laundry, taking the dog out, etc. But they do not specify who should do each task, yet they expect that the tasks be done by the time they get home. Usually my siblings and I will look at each other and hope that someone steps up to do it. We usually end up waiting until the last minute because we keep waiting for one of us to do the tasks until someone “takes one for the team” and does it (this usually ends up being my brother, who is the youngest). I never realized that this was a coordination/cooperation problem until reading about the volunteer’s dilemma. From now on, I am going to try and employ some of the answers/solutions in the reading to see if these issues diminish.
This reading also helped me realized that compromise is really inevitable. Sometimes, we just have to accept the “lower utility” value or the option that will not always totally maximize our well being. This is a sacrifice that we made, since we live in a society that is structured around compromise and communication. Furthermore, it can not always be the same person who is making the sacrifice. If one person always acquires the sacrifice, then it damages the credibility of the other people who do not sacrifice. People will be less willing to compromise/communicate with those people and therefore, we will incur more problems down the line. As a result, it is important that we all sacrifice and not free ride in order to maximize our utility in the long run and not just the short run.