When doing this week’s reading, a part that I found of particular interest was the discussions on the different types of lies everyone uses on a frequent basis. When the question was posed at the beginning of this section, “how often do you give answers that you know are untrue”(21), I thought to myself the answer that the reading gave. That I believe myself to be an overall pretty truthful person who does not give answers that I know are untrue frequently. Afterall, our society teaches us from a young age that lying is bad and we should tell the truth. However, through the examination of the different types of lies, I was clearly wrong. I think probably everyone lies in at least one of these categories every day, myself included. Whether it be the simple lie of responding to the question how you are doing today or a lie that we choose to say because we want to manage how others perceive us. I would be honestly curious to see a study that examined the number of lies a group of people commit everyday for a set period of time and how the numbers of lies they commit in actuality compare to the number of lies they would predict they commit.
The discussion of the types of lies and biases we hold also reminded me of concepts I have learned about in my psychology courses. Specifically the discussion of blue lies stuck out to me because it reminded me of the concept of demand characteristics in psychology research. Demand characteristics is the idea that participants behave in the way that they believe the research wants them to, in a sense impression management. Participants want to present favorable outward behaviors or answers that they believe the other person wants to see or hear so they will view the participants positively. I believe blue lies and the presence of demand characteristics in psychology research can be attributed to the fact that everyone in society wants to feel accepted by others so we want to present the version of ourselves that we believe will be accepted most easily by our immediate audience. Therefore we might present a certain version or aspects of our person to certain people and not others depending on what they believe they would be most receptive to.