{"id":1538,"date":"2021-08-19T14:48:36","date_gmt":"2021-08-19T18:48:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/?p=1538"},"modified":"2021-08-19T14:48:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-19T18:48:36","slug":"word-of-the-week-comity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/2021\/08\/19\/word-of-the-week-comity\/","title":{"rendered":"Word of the Week! Comity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/files\/2021\/08\/Senator_John_Warner_portrait.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1539\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/files\/2021\/08\/Senator_John_Warner_portrait-200x300.jpeg\" alt=\"Senator John Warner\" width=\"322\" height=\"483\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/files\/2021\/08\/Senator_John_Warner_portrait-200x300.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/files\/2021\/08\/Senator_John_Warner_portrait.jpeg 309w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 322px) 100vw, 322px\" \/><\/a>Professor Joe Hoyle in Richmond&#8217;s School of Business nominated this word, noting that in a column about the death of former Virginia Senator John Warner, &#8220;the journalist used patrician, mien, stentorian, and comity in a single sentence.\u00a0 For newspapers today, I thought that was mighty impressive. &#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As do I. Warner earned all those adjectives, but comity above all. He was a man whose long career exemplified comity, which <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oed.com\/view\/Entry\/36943?redirectedFrom=comity&amp;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The OED defines<\/a> as &#8220;Courtesy, civility, urbanity; kindly and considerate behaviour towards others.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We could use more comity, its first usage noted in the 16th Century, in our angry modern times.<\/p>\n<p>Somewhere around here I have a letter Warner (or at least his staff) wrote to me about his decision not to support funding for the International Space Station. I strongly wanted it built, and in my letter I said that Warner would no longer have my vote unless he supported a robust program of human-crewed space exploration (I&#8217;m as big a zealot as Elon Musk for settling the Solar System beyond Earth).\u00a0 Warner&#8217;s reply was so temperate, so reasoned, so full of comity in admitting that our disagreement could be civil that I did pull a lever for him once more, in 1996. My wife voted for Mark Warner in the election, another Senator I greatly admire today. We still joke about our two-Warner household.<\/p>\n<p>I chose Joe&#8217;s pick because we begin a school year after a great deal of strife on campus over institutional racism, the pandemic, and more. Perhaps it&#8217;s a vain hope, even a fool&#8217;s hope, that like John Warner, we can learn to reach across the divides between us to hear each other&#8217;s stories, even to agree to disagree.<\/p>\n<p>Now for an entry on &#8220;stentorian.&#8221; That&#8217;s a word I have long wanted to cover. If you have words or metaphors to share, contact me by e-mail (jessid -at- richmond -dot- edu) or leaving a comment below.<\/p>\n<p>See all of our Metaphors of the Month\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/tag\/metaphor-of-the-month\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>\u00a0and Words of the Week\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/tag\/word-of-the-week\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>Creative Commons image courtesy of <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/John_Warner\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Wikipedia<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Professor Joe Hoyle in Richmond&#8217;s School of Business nominated this word, noting that in a column about the death of former Virginia Senator John Warner, &#8220;the journalist used patrician, mien, stentorian, and comity in a single sentence.\u00a0 For newspapers today, I thought that was mighty impressive. &#8221; As do I. Warner earned all those adjectives, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/writing\/2021\/08\/19\/word-of-the-week-comity\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Word of the Week! 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