{"id":99,"date":"2012-05-12T03:27:56","date_gmt":"2012-05-12T07:27:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/2010\/05\/06\/why-our-mothers-are-our-heroes\/"},"modified":"2016-06-18T17:55:34","modified_gmt":"2016-06-18T21:55:34","slug":"why-our-mothers-are-our-heroes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/2012\/05\/12\/why-our-mothers-are-our-heroes\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Our Mothers are Our Heroes"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"clip_image006.jpg\"<\/a>By Scott T. Allison and George R. Goethals<\/strong><\/p>\n

Each year we celebrate Mother’s Day, and this reminds us of the results of a study we conducted recently that underscored the importance of family members as heroes.\u00a0 In the study, people of all ages and from all walks of life were asked to list their heroes.\u00a0 We were surprised, yet pleased, to see that family members were listed about a third of the time.\u00a0 Most importantly, one fourth of all people listed their mothers as their hero.\u00a0 Mothers were mentioned more than any other person, including fathers<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Mother’s Day became a nationally recognized holiday in 1914 because of the efforts of Anna Jarvis, a West Virginian who campaigned to honor mothers after her own beloved mother passed away in 1905.\u00a0 Ironically, by the 1920s Jarvis became disenchanted with the commercialization of Mother’s Day and began campaigning against the holiday.\u00a0 \"Anna<\/a>Still, we believe her initial sentiment was on target and we applaud the opportunity to recognize the heroic qualities of mothers everywhere.<\/p>\n

Many highly accomplished individuals are quick to attribute their success to their mothers.\u00a0 American presidents are especially likely to do so.\u00a0 Abraham Lincoln once noted that “all that I am, or can be, I owe to my angel mother.”\u00a0 George Washington also observed that “all I am I owe to my mother.\u00a0 I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.”\u00a0 Andrew Jackson claimed that “there never was a woman like my mother.\u00a0 She was as gentle as a dove and as brave as a lioness.”<\/p>\n

Other celebrities also express their indebtedness to their mothers.\u00a0 Seven-time Tour de France champion Lance Armstrong once said, “My mother gave me more than any teacher or father figure ever had.”\u00a0 With these words, Armstrong identified the precise reason why so many of us view our mothers as heroes.\u00a0 It’s all about the loving generosity of mothers.\u00a0 When the participants in our study were asked why their mothers were heroic, they generated three main reasons:\u00a0 generosity with time, money, and love.<\/p>\n

There are many ways that mothers gave their time to us.\u00a0 According to survey respondents, mothers tended to us when we were sick, accompanied us to school and soccer practice, made us dinner, and read stories to us.\u00a0 Our mothers made financial sacrifices, too.\u00a0 They wore old clothes so that we could wear new clothes; they took on part-time jobs to buy us gifts; they saved money for us to attend college; \"mothers_day_cake.jpg\"<\/a>they gave us our weekly allowance; and they made sure we had food on the table.<\/p>\n

But the most important quality that distinguishes mothers from other heroes, including fathers, is the free offering of love that mothers give us.\u00a0 Mothers were there for us when we needed emotional support.\u00a0 Mothers hugged us.\u00a0 They comforted us and let us sit on their laps.\u00a0 They kissed us on our cheeks before school and at bedtime at night.<\/p>\n

Why are mothers viewed as so heroically loving?\u00a0 There are at least two reasons.\u00a0 First, research has shown that women tend to be more likely than men to possess communal traits such as lovingness, affection, warmth, and nurturance.\u00a0 These communal traits are highly valued in the context of raising children and are associated with morality and goodness.\u00a0 Second, it is well known that during childhood, mothers are our primary attachment figures.\u00a0 They are more likely than fathers to interact with, and bond with, infants.\u00a0 Our society is no doubt evolving toward fathers having more communal traits and showing more attachment behaviors, but mothers still hold the edge.<\/p>\n

And so on this Mother’s Day, we’d like to acknowledge and thank Anna Jarvis and all the women who have given so much to us all.\u00a0 We wish everyone the happiest of Mother’s Days!<\/p>\n

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Do you have a hero that you would like us to profile?\u00a0 Please send your suggestions to Scott T. Allison (sallison@richmond.edu) or to George R. Goethals (ggoethal@richmond.edu).<\/em><\/p>\n

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