{"id":4998,"date":"2019-05-10T06:18:41","date_gmt":"2019-05-10T10:18:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/?p=4998"},"modified":"2019-04-30T14:19:31","modified_gmt":"2019-04-30T18:19:31","slug":"the-science-behind-why-we-celebrate-mothers-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/2019\/05\/10\/the-science-behind-why-we-celebrate-mothers-day\/","title":{"rendered":"The Science Behind Why We Celebrate Mother’s Day"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>By Scott T. Allison<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a familiar story \u2013 a mother sacrifices her life to save her children. On February 7, 2019, Kristina Stratton ran into her burning home to rescue her four kids from their upstairs bedrooms. The children made it out safely, but Stratton succumbed to the flames.<\/p>\n

Each year we celebrate Mother\u2019s Day, and for good reason. Our mothers are our Number One Hero, according to our surveys<\/a>. Fathers occupy second place in our hero surveys, but they are a distant second.<\/p>\n

Mothers are indeed the mother of all heroes.<\/p>\n

For the past several years, psychologists have been able to pinpoint the precise reasons why people need heroes<\/a>. Our heroes appear to serve four important functions, which spell out the word DIME: (1) Defense and protection; (2) Intelligence and wisdom<\/a>; (3) Moral modeling; and (4) Enhancement and inspiration.<\/p>\n

Our mothers excel at fulfilling all four of these functions. Here\u2019s how mothers do it:<\/p>\n

1. Mothers Defend and Protect<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kristina Stratton is certainly not the only mother who has died while defending and protecting her children. Hundreds of mothers around the world perish each year while shielding their kids from danger. Legendary stories of mothers sacrificing their lives abound, and in fact there are so many tales throughout the ages that Snopes<\/a> and other fact-checking sites<\/a> question their veracity.<\/p>\n

Legends are usually based on truth, and there is no doubting the truth about our mothers\u2019 willingness to make the deepest of sacrifices for their children.<\/p>\n

The protection function of heroes is seen in our respondents\u2019 comments<\/a> about why their mothers are their heroes. Typical responses include, \u201cMy mother protected me from neighborhood bullies\u201d<\/em> and \u201cMy mother kept me safe from predators.\u201d<\/em> Rebecca M. Fischer, a student researcher at the University of Richmond, found that mothers are \u201cbiologically driven to protect<\/a>, care for, and motivate their children to succeed.\u201d<\/p>\n

Other colleagues of mine at Richmond, Craig H. Kinsley and Kelly G. Lambert, have discovered that motherhood changes the brain<\/a>, producing maternal behaviors directed toward protecting their young from danger.<\/p>\n

2. Mothers Provide Intelligence and Wisdom<\/strong><\/p>\n

Scientists are beginning to uncover evidence that intelligence is inherited more from mothers<\/a> than from fathers.<\/p>\n

In addition, mothers tend to be fiercely committed to passing on wisdom to their children. My own mother taught me that the most important things in life are intangible and cannot be bought \u2013 love, integrity, character, and honesty.<\/p>\n

Many of our most cherished heroes credit their mothers for teaching them fundamental truths about life. George Washington observed that \u201call I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.\u201d<\/p>\n

Famed musician Stevie Wonder has said that his mother \u201cwas my greatest teacher\u201d. Former First Lady Michelle Obama observed that \u201cLife is practice. I tell my girls this every day, \u2018you are practicing who you are going to be.\u2018 Do you want to be dependable? Then you have to be dependable. If you want people to trust you then you have to be trustworthy. Practice who you want to be every single day.\u201d<\/p>\n

A mother\u2019s wisdom is often wrapped in compassion for others. Poet Maya Angelou\u2019s mother encouraged her to \u201calways be intolerant of ignorance but understanding of illiteracy. Some people, unable to go to school, are more educated and more intelligent than college professors.\u201d<\/p>\n

3. Mothers are Moral Models<\/strong><\/p>\n

Our mothers are heroes to us because they role-model the highest standards of human conduct. Abraham Lincoln once noted that \u201call that I am, or can be, I owe to my angel mother.\u201d Andrew Jackson claimed that \u201cthere never was a woman like my mother. She was as gentle as a dove.\u201d<\/p>\n

In his annual Presidential Proclamation of Mother\u2019s Day, Barak Obama emphasized how mothers \u201cshape America\u2019s character\u201d. Many mothers \u201cstruggle to raise children while pursuing their careers or as single parents working to provide for their families.\u201d Mothers lead \u201cby powerful example and overcoming obstacles so their sons and daughters can reach their fullest potential.\u201d<\/p>\n

As children, we watch our mothers\u2019 selflessness and daily sacrifices, and we learn that we\u2019re all called to perform these acts of kindness for others.<\/p>\n

4. Mothers Enhance and Inspire Us<\/strong><\/p>\n

Our respondents to our hero surveys never fail to mention how much their mothers made them better people<\/a>. Typical responses include, \u201cMy mother inspired me to become my best self\u201d<\/em> and \u201cMy mother motivated me to develop my fullest potential.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Olympic champion Wilma Rudolph\u2019s mother helped the track star overcome polio. \u201cThe doctors told me I would never walk again. My mother told me I would. I believed my mother,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

Inventor Thomas Edison shared a similar story. \u201cMy mother was the making of me,\u201d he said. \u201cShe was so true, so sure of me; and I felt I had something to live for, someone I must not disappoint.\u201d<\/p>\n

Facebook executive Sheryl Sandberg has said that her mother \u201craised me and my sister to believe that we could do anything, and we believed her.\u201d<\/p>\n

Our mothers think the world of us and want what\u2019s best for us. They help us all reach for the stars and maximize our fullest potential.<\/p>\n

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Mother\u2019s Day far exceeds Father\u2019s Day<\/a> in terms of greeting card sales and gift expenditures, and for good reason. Mothers are our Number One Hero because of the free offering of love that they give us. They are there for us when we need emotional support. Mothers hug us. They comfort us when we cry and let us sit on their laps. They kiss us on our cheeks before school and at bedtime at night.<\/p>\n

Yes, social norms are changing and we now see more fathers taking on the role of nurturers than in previous generations. But the emerging science of heroism<\/a> helps explain why we reserve a special place in our hearts for our heroic mothers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

By Scott T. Allison It\u2019s a familiar story \u2013 a mother sacrifices her life to save her children. On February 7, 2019, Kristina Stratton ran into her burning home to rescue her four kids from their upstairs bedrooms. The children made it out safely, but Stratton succumbed to the flames. Each year we celebrate Mother\u2019s … Continue reading The Science Behind Why We Celebrate Mother’s Day<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1182,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5444],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4998","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-commentary-and-analysis"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/phawtM-1iC","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4998","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1182"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4998"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4998\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4998"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4998"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4998"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}