{"id":396,"date":"2019-11-20T06:27:37","date_gmt":"2019-11-20T11:27:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/2011\/02\/23\/fred-rogers-love-wisdom-and-compassion-for-all-ages\/"},"modified":"2019-11-20T17:03:59","modified_gmt":"2019-11-20T22:03:59","slug":"fred-rogers-love-wisdom-and-compassion-for-all-ages","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/2019\/11\/20\/fred-rogers-love-wisdom-and-compassion-for-all-ages\/","title":{"rendered":"Fred Rogers: The Hero Who Helped People Become Their Best Selves"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/files\/2011\/10\/download.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-4901\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/files\/2011\/10\/download.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"259\" height=\"194\" \/><\/a>By Scott T. Allison<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif;\">About 30 years ago, a friend of ours was in the throes of a major depression.\u00a0 As she lay listlessly on the couch one day, feeling the weight of the world on her shoulders, she flipped through the television channels and came across the classic children&#8217;s television program <em>Mister Rogers&#8217; Neighborhood<\/em>.\u00a0 Struck by the show&#8217;s gentle, loving host Fred Rogers, our friend penned a letter to him, expressing her grief and hopelessness, but also her appreciation for briefly lifting her spirits with his message of love and hope.\u00a0 A week later, to her great surprise, she received a hand-written letter back from Rogers, who thanked her for writing and gave her encouragement and support.\u00a0 To this day this framed letter from Rogers hangs on the wall of our friend&#8217;s home, and she remains deeply grateful to him for reaching out to her during the most difficult time in her life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif;\">Not surprisingly, Fred Rogers wrote many such letters to his fans.\u00a0 In an age when celebrity misbehavior and drug use capture most of the headlines, Rogers was a true gentleman whose primary mission in life was to enrich the lives of other people, especially children.\u00a0 As a young man, Rogers noticed during television&#8217;s infancy how the new medium was being misused.\u00a0 &#8220;I went into television because I hated it so,&#8221; said Rogers.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif;\">&#8220;I thought there was some way of using this fabulous instrument to be of nurture to those who would watch and listen.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif;\">Rogers developed a show in 1968 that helped children build self-esteem, conquer their fears, and love others.\u00a0 <em>Mister Rogers&#8217; Neighborhood<\/em> encouraged children to become happy and productive citizens.\u00a0 It was the longest-running program on public television, lasting 33 years and finally ending its run in 2001. Rogers was an American icon of children&#8217;s education and a symbol of compassion and morality.\u00a0 He became such a beloved figure that one day, when the media reported that his car had been stolen, the thieves immediately returned the car to the exact spot from which it was taken, with an apology on the dashboard. \u00a0It read, &#8220;If we&#8217;d known it was yours, we never would have taken it.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif;\">While accepting a Lifetime Achievement Award at the 1997 Emmy Awards Show, Rogers approached the microphone and said, &#8220;All of us have special ones who have loved us into being. Would you just take, along with me, ten seconds to <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/files\/2011\/10\/Fred-Rogers-1-1532128337.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-4902\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/files\/2011\/10\/Fred-Rogers-1-1532128337-300x210.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"210\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/files\/2011\/10\/Fred-Rogers-1-1532128337-300x210.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/files\/2011\/10\/Fred-Rogers-1-1532128337-768x537.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/files\/2011\/10\/Fred-Rogers-1-1532128337-1024x716.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/files\/2011\/10\/Fred-Rogers-1-1532128337.jpg 1140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>think of the people who have helped you become who you are. \u00a0Ten seconds of silence.&#8221; \u00a0Tears began to flow from the eyes of many in the audience.\u00a0 Rogers finally looked up from his watch and softly said, &#8220;Whomever you are thinking about, how pleased they must be to know the difference you feel they&#8217;ve made.&#8221; Actor LeVar Burton recalls a time when Rogers was invited to a gathering at the White House, and he asked everybody, including <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif;\">President Clinton, to close their eyes for 60 seconds and think about someone who had helped shape them.\u00a0 Again people wept.\u00a0 &#8220;Fred felt it was critical to acknowledge those who have helped us come into being,&#8221; said Burton. \u00a0&#8220;And Fred&#8217;s legacy is that he is that person for so many of us.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif;\">Rogers was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2002, and one year later, after Rogers passed away at the age of 74, the U.S. Senate approved a resolution to commemorate his life.\u00a0 It read, in part, &#8220;Through his spirituality and placid nature, Mr. Rogers was able to reach out to our nation&#8217;s children and encourage each of them to understand the important role they play in their communities and as part of their families.\u00a0 More importantly, he did not shy away from dealing with difficult issues of death and divorce but rather encouraged children to express their emotions in a healthy, constructive manner, often providing a simple answer to life&#8217;s hardships.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif;\">To the very end of his life, Rogers encouraged people to love one another and to appreciate the deep connections all humans have with each other.\u00a0 Shortly before he died, while giving a commencement speech at Dartmouth College in 2002, he said, <strong>&#8220;Our world hangs like a magnificent jewel in the vastness of space. \u00a0Every one of us is a part of that jewel, a facet of that jewel. \u00a0And in the perspective of infinity, our differences are infinitesimal. \u00a0We are intimately related.&#8221;<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>In 2018, a documentary entitled <i><a title=\"Won't You Be My Neighbor? (film)\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Won%27t_You_Be_My_Neighbor%3F_(film)\">Won\u2019t You Be My Neighbor?<\/a><\/i> based on the life and legacy of Rogers, was released to critical acclaim and became the highest grossing biodoc film of all time.\u00a0 Now Tom Hanks stars as Fred Rogers in the highly acclaimed film, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rottentomatoes.com\/m\/a_beautiful_day_in_the_neighborhood\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood.<\/a>\u00a0 We are grateful that the world is acknowledging the heroism of such kind, gentle man who has helped so many millions of people become their best selves.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Scott T. Allison About 30 years ago, a friend of ours was in the throes of a major depression.\u00a0 As she lay listlessly on the couch one day, feeling the weight of the world on her shoulders, she flipped through the television channels and came across the classic children&#8217;s television program Mister Rogers&#8217; Neighborhood.\u00a0 &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/2019\/11\/20\/fred-rogers-love-wisdom-and-compassion-for-all-ages\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Fred Rogers: The Hero Who Helped People Become Their Best Selves<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1182,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1169],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-396","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-celebrity-heroes"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/phawtM-6o","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1182"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=396"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=396"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=396"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/heroes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=396"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}