Fred Rogers: Love, Wisdom, and Compassion For All Ages

By Scott T. Allison

About 25 years ago, a friend of ours was in the throes of a major depression.  As she lay listlessly on the couch one day, feeling the weight of the world on her shoulders, she flipped through the television channels and came across the classic children’s television program Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood.  Struck by the show’s gentle, loving host Fred Rogers, our friend penned a letter to him, expressing her grief and hopelessness, but also her appreciation for briefly lifting her spirits with his message of love and hope.  A week later, to her great surprise, she received a hand-written letter back from Rogers, who thanked her for writing and gave her encouragement and support.  To this day this framed letter from Rogers hangs on the wall of our friend’s home, and she remains deeply grateful to him for reaching out to her during the most difficult time in her life.

Not surprisingly, Fred Rogers wrote many such letters to his fans.  In an age when celebrity misbehavior and drug use capture most of the headlines, Rogers was a true gentleman whose primary mission in life was to enrich the lives of other people, especially children.  As a young man, Rogers noticed during television’s infancy how the new medium was being misused.  “I went into television because I hated it so,” said Rogers.  “I thought there was some way of using this fabulous instrument to be of nurture to those who would watch and listen.”

Rogers developed a show in 1968 that helped children build self-esteem, conquer their fears, and love others.  Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood encouraged children to become happy and productive citizens.  It was the longest-running program on public television, lasting 33 years and finally ending its run in 2001. Rogers was an American icon of children’s education and a symbol of compassion and morality.  He became such a beloved figure that one day, when the media reported that his car had been stolen, the thieves immediately returned the car to the exact spot from which it was taken, with an apology on the dashboard.  It read, “If we’d known it was yours, we never would have taken it.”

While accepting a Lifetime Achievement Award at the 1997 Emmy Awards Show, Rogers approached the microphone and said, “All of us have special ones who have loved us into being. Would you just take, along with me, ten seconds to think of the people who have helped you become who you are.  Ten seconds of silence.”  Tears began to flow from the eyes of many in the audience.  Rogers finally looked up from his watch and softly said, “Whomever you are thinking about, how pleased they must be to know the difference you feel they’ve made.” Actor LeVar Burton recalls a time when Rogers was invited to a gathering at the White House, and he asked everybody, including President Clinton, to close their eyes for 60 seconds and think about someone who had helped shape them.  Again people wept.  “Fred felt it was critical to acknowledge those who have helped us come into being,” said Burton.  “And Fred’s legacy is that he is that person for so many of us.”

Rogers was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2002, and one year later, after Rogers passed away at the age of 74, the U.S. Senate approved a resolution to commemorate his life.  It read, in part, “Through his spirituality and placid nature, Mr. Rogers was able to reach out to our nation’s children and encourage each of them to understand the important role they play in their communities and as part of their families.  More importantly, he did not shy away from dealing with difficult issues of death and divorce but rather encouraged children to express their emotions in a healthy, constructive manner, often providing a simple answer to life’s hardships.”

To the very end of his life, Rogers encouraged people to love one another and to appreciate the deep connections all humans have with each other.  Shortly before he died, while giving a commencement speech at Dartmouth College in 2002, he said, “Our world hangs like a magnificent jewel in the vastness of space.  Every one of us is a part of that jewel, a facet of that jewel.  And in the perspective of infinity, our differences are infinitesimal.  We are intimately related.”

This past year, a documentary entitled Won’t You Be My Neighbor? based on the life and legacy of Rogers, was released to critical acclaim and became the highest grossing biodoc film of all time. It has also been announced that Tom Hanks will portray Rogers in an upcoming biographical film entitled You Are My Friend. 

8 thoughts on “Fred Rogers: Love, Wisdom, and Compassion For All Ages

  1. I remember watching this show as a child with my two brothers. While I didn’t always follow it, I watched enough episodes to realize that Mr. Rodgers was truly special person. He was an exceptional man who no doubt influenced the lives of not only children, but many more as well through his teachings of caring, selflessness, and friendship. I find it truly remarkable that he took time out of his busy schedule to write a handwritten letter back to the woman mentioned in the post. I believe that actions like those truly epitomize Mr. Rodgers and the values that he lived by from day to day.

  2. Mister Rogers has a zen quality about him, a feeling of inner peace and serenity, that I admire and do my best to emulate. What he did seemed simple, and simplistic, but deceptively so; it’s far from easy to nurture the seeds of civilization among the noise of barbarism. This was a great tribute to a gentle man with a giant heart, Scotty and George. 🙂

  3. Everyone knows Mr. Rodgers regardless of if they had seen the show before and for theives to have returned his car is saying something about him. He is a hero to the small children and was a great voice to hear on the TV. He was a hero and wakeup call to society warning it of its inevitable downfall. Sadly television is not improving as time goes on.

  4. Mr. Rogers is definitely a hero, and one whose legacy, I believe, will live on for years to come. Not only did this man accomplish the feat of having a top rated kids show for over 30 years, but he did so, while changing society for the better. He created a show that meant something, and in the process he became a key Transitional Hero for generations of children. Mr. Rogers has helped young children develop morals and learn right from wrong, at a crucial stage in their developmental process, and for that Mr. Rogers certainly deserves to be recognized.

  5. Mr. Rogers was the epitome of compassion and grace, both on and off the screen. He worked hard to bring joy to all those who watched his show and to urge us all to always find the best in others. His selflessness, kindness, compassion and humility enriched so many lives across the globe and made him a true hero.

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