{"id":107,"date":"2019-07-31T11:20:37","date_gmt":"2019-07-31T15:20:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/encompassindia\/?p=107"},"modified":"2019-07-31T11:20:37","modified_gmt":"2019-07-31T15:20:37","slug":"alistairs-lessons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/encompassindia\/2019\/07\/31\/alistairs-lessons\/","title":{"rendered":"Alistair’s Lessons"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lesson One: Common Culture<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n

Before departing for India, I was warned, \u201cI think you\u2019re going to be in for a bit of culture shock.\u201d\u00a0 In truth, my biggest shock during my trip was how utterly un-shocking everything was.\u00a0 At least for me, the small but crowded city of Kushalnagar, a brief tuk-tuk away from Sera, was incomparably more navigable than the New York City an hour away from my home.\u00a0 The streets were much the same, save for the differently colored dirt along the sides and the completely lawless yet cooperative and fairly effective Indian driving style.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, though, all of the people with whom I interacted were easy-going and friendly.\u00a0 This was the case both at the monastery and elsewhere.\u00a0 Instead of focusing on where to walk, who to avoid, and who\u2019s safe to talk to, I spent my time eagerly in conversations and making friends.\u00a0 Reflecting on my conversations throughout the trip, a primary takeaway is that despite our cultural differences, I related quickly and easily with everyone I met.\u00a0 Of course, I was in a somewhat sheltered environment at the monastery and not in a major city when I left it, but I believe this lesson still holds value.<\/p>\n

My Indian experience highlighted the common culture we all seem to share no matter the country or region, and which should be celebrated just as much as our differences, as a uniting element among peoples who ultimately face the many of the same basic human desires and problems.<\/p>\n

\"\"Me and Molly with Tsering (middle) and Jamyang, two monks from Sera.\u00a0 Tsering, who we called \u201cLungto,\u201d became a good friend to us and took us to a stunning lake with Jamyang on our last day.\u00a0 We miss you Lungto!<\/p>\n

Lesson Two: A New Area of Interest, A New Eagerness to Learn<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"From left to right: Me, Dr. Pierce, Tony, Chris (Dr. Pierce\u2019s co-instructor), and Molly.\u00a0 Tony served as a translator for Dr. Pierce\u2019s class, will be conducting neuroscience research in Russia in the Fall, and is a genuine guy with a great catch phrase: \u201cTime to lunch!\u201d<\/p>\n

My second lesson in India was to remain open to new chances to learn.\u00a0 At the monastery, where the monks debate daily, discourse is encouraged and the monks are eager to talk to us about anything at all.\u00a0 Taking advantage of this opportunity, I had many fantastic conversations at the monastery about culture, the monks\u2019 lifestyles, and Buddhist philosophy.\u00a0 I even had the privilege of meeting the abbot of the monastery, who recently won the British Empire Medal for his work in Buddhism education in the United Kingdom.\u00a0 With him, I discussed different aspects of studying Buddhism from a Western educational and cultural background, and he had fantastic advice for me as someone interested in learning more.<\/p>\n

Through all of my conversations during the trip, my interest in studying Buddhism blossomed into a passion and an eagerness to learn.\u00a0 This is one of the things I am most grateful for from the experience; it is a lasting passion that may possibly lead my professional life in a new direction, but will certainly teach me to act and think in new and helpful ways which apply to all areas of my life.<\/p>\n

Lesson Three: Don\u2019t Be Ashamed of Where You\u2019re From<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n

As an American coming from another culture with somewhat differing values and a different educational background, how can I expect to succeed in a place like India or a Tibetan community within it?\u00a0 This fear was slowly, but not entirely, assuaged during my stay at Sera.\u00a0 Speaking with the monks, a common theme was that many were eager to speak with us because of our unique background.\u00a0 A few monks even asked me about my academic background in philosophy, genuinely interested in the differences in topics, methods of analysis, and cultural influences between Buddhist and Western philosophy.<\/p>\n

Through this experience, I realized that I had been viewing my background as a disadvantage in my new environment, and that this attitude had been unproductive and even held me back in some invaluable learning opportunities \u2013 my shyness and fear of offending anyone had kept me quiet in times when I now see there was no danger at all.\u00a0 Rather, I learned to see my academic background as an advantage in many ways, and for the second part of the trip focused on cultivating my differences in a positive, productive way.<\/p>\n

\"\"A panoramic view of Sera and its surroundings from the balcony where Molly and I meditated in the mornings.\u00a0 A sight I hope I\u2019ll never forget!<\/p>\n

Lesson Four: Balance of Ambitions<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n

It seems plausible that happiness or success, however one defines them, might be found in many places and in many forms.\u00a0 One lesson from seeing India in person is that a lack of my home culture and amenities may turn out to be miniscule in comparison to the benefits of a change in location and lifestyle.\u00a0 As I learned from Nicolas, the Canadian monk whose interview will also be posted on this blog when technology cooperates, even a Westerner might find contentedness and peace in a place as remote as Sera.\u00a0 As he emphasized to me, he is a monk at Sera simply because he loves to be there.<\/p>\n

Realistically, many people cannot hope to change location in quite this manner \u2013 people have ties and relationships in the places they come from.\u00a0 However, Nicolas still showed me that there is a world of possibility for learning through travel, and that maybe I can do it while maintaining a job and life in America, too.\u00a0 As a young American, I see clearly that many people my age naturally agonize over where they will be and what they will be doing in their future.\u00a0 They may wish to stay in the US forever, to travel abroad often, or to live abroad forever.\u00a0 In my view, herein lies the immense value of the EnCompass programs and other like them \u2013 they are able to provide some much-needed perspective for young people rapidly who face many paths forward in a confusing and overwhelming world.\u00a0 Whether I become a financial analyst, professor of philosophy, a monk, some combination of these, or something entirely different, I am able to make a more informed, comfortable, and confident decision because of my experience.<\/p>\n

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This photo (taken at a hotel our first morning in India) is poorly lit, but I think it really captures the big smile I had throughout the trip! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Final Lesson: Some Food is Definitely Too Spicy for Me, and I\u2019m Okay with Admitting That Now<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m just going to say I learned that no matter how delicious the food was at one of my first meals in India, sweating and red lips should have been a good enough indicator that I might be making the following few days less pleasant than they could have been.\u00a0 I will not provide any more details on how I learned this lesson\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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