{"id":268,"date":"2019-07-24T16:39:46","date_gmt":"2019-07-24T20:39:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/edugloballeadership2019\/?p=268"},"modified":"2019-07-24T16:39:46","modified_gmt":"2019-07-24T20:39:46","slug":"5-core-behavior-patterns-for-building-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.richmond.edu\/edugloballeadership2019\/2019\/07\/24\/5-core-behavior-patterns-for-building-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Core Behavior Patterns for Building Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">How do I get my people to do what they are supposed to be?\u00a0 This is a question asked by many leaders.\u00a0 According to Jeb Blount, these are the 5 core behavior patterns necessary for building trusting relationships between your employees.\u00a0 Blount believes that leadership skills are learned behaviors.\u00a0 The following behavior patterns are learned skills that can make you a better leader.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">1)<\/span><span style=\"margin: 0px;line-height: normal;font-family: 'Times New Roman';font-size: 7pt;font-style: normal;font-variant: normal\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\"><strong>Developing, nurturing, and leveraging the interpersonal relationship between leadership and follower<\/strong> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">a.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">It is your ability as a leader to get them to follow and lead<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">b.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Put the employees&#8217; needs and goals above your own<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">c.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">The more connected your employees feel to you, the more likely they are to open up to your ideas for coaching and guiding them to success <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">d.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\"> \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <span style=\"font-family: Calibri;font-size: medium\">You m<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">ust take careful sense to make trust in your actions<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">2)<\/span><span style=\"margin: 0px;line-height: normal;font-family: 'Times New Roman';font-size: 7pt;font-style: normal;font-variant: normal\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Put people first; helping the people you lead to achieve their goals <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">3)<\/span><span style=\"margin: 0px;line-height: normal;font-family: 'Times New Roman';font-size: 7pt;font-style: normal;font-variant: normal\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\"><strong>Connect<\/strong> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">a.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Bind people together on an emotional level<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">i.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Build sincere emotional level rather than the pretext of being a superior<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">ii.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">People will feel more comfortable telling you their roadblocks <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">iii.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Will be more open to your guidance and suggestions to succeed <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">4)<\/span><span style=\"margin: 0px;line-height: normal;font-family: 'Times New Roman';font-size: 7pt;font-style: normal;font-variant: normal\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\"><strong>Position people to win<\/strong> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">a.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Maximize performance but constantly focusing on getting your people in order to win by training and coaching, and helping them to develop and strategize for their career and current role<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">b.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Learning what your people want to achieve professionally and personally<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">5)<\/span><span style=\"margin: 0px;line-height: normal;font-family: 'Times New Roman';font-size: 7pt;font-style: normal;font-variant: normal\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\"><strong>Build trust<\/strong> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">a.<\/span><span style=\"font: 7pt 'Times New Roman';margin: 0px\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Tangible evidence that you do what you say you will do and that your behavior as a leader will remain constant<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"> <span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">Creating positive emotional experiences for your employees can m<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri\">otivate them to become loyal and generate positive and powerful belief in you as a leader.\u00a0 Employees need to trust and believe in you in order to keep a healthy and respectful 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