After 30 years of college teaching I did something new this week. I mailed the first tuition check for our daughter, who will, as I had hoped, be attending a liberal arts college. One friend commented, “It is like driving a new car off a cliff. One down, seven to go.”
Yet rather than seeing that tuition check as being a Toyota Camry with a stuck accelerator, I believe I just paid the first installment on the greatest investment my wife and I could ever make in our daughter.
Many parents might ask, “Wouldn’t it be better if your daughter attended business school or studied engineering?” Perhaps, if that was her passion, but it is a rare 18-year-old who really knows they want to be an accountant or an electrical engineer.
Sure we want our daughter to eventually be gainfully employed, but we don’t think college should be about getting your first job. Instead we want our daughter to find her passion and purpose. We know that these next four years of intellectual exploration through close reading of texts, encountering different ways of knowing, writing (and re-writing) essays about questions both big and small, and partnering in rigorous academic inquiry is the best opportunity for her to reach her fullest intellectual and interpersonal potential and to lead a life of meaning.
We are making a long-term investment. With her liberal arts degree there is no promise of her getting a job with one of the “big four” accounting firms. (Remember when that used to be the “big eight?”) Instead her liberal arts education will provide the foundation for her to engage our diverse and pluralistic society and prepare her for the multitude of career changes she will encounter in her lifetime.
Am I offering wishful thinking? Personal experience with hundreds of advisees over the last 30 years tells me I can be confident in that outcome. The research literature supports my personal observations. Yet outcomes do vary. Some students make the most of those four years and others frankly respond poorly to all the freedoms and distractions. That latter result is when parents see that tuition check as that new car falling to the rocks at the bottom of a cliff.
So what advice would I offer my daughter about courses and studying?
If she asks me about meeting her graduation requirements, I’ll tell her to ignore the requirements and to take courses that get her heart pumping. In four years she will have checked all the requirement boxes anyway, and, in the process, she will have examined topics that really interest her, enjoyed learning more, and likely achieved at a higher level.
I would encourage her to make a real effort to get to know her professors and let them get to know her. The faculty at liberal arts colleges deeply care about student learning and achievement. Almost without exception they consider teaching their highest priority. Conversations with these individuals outside the classroom and shoulder-to-shoulder collaboration with them on research are opportunities that rarely, if ever, happen at big schools, but are the norm at a liberal arts college.
If I have a worry, it is time management. Now our daughter is incredibly self-disciplined and comes from an exceptionally demanding public high school. Yet suddenly classes meet only twice a week, papers and exams are months off, and at first college might seem easier than high school.
Striking that balance between playing hard and working hard is so difficult that first year. If you succeed and retain the good habits developed in high school you burst out of the blocks like a sprinter and run the next four years like a cross-country champion. When you hit a hurdle you are able to pick yourself up, clear the standard, and move on to the next challenge. If you procrastinate or coast along on the momentum gained from working hard in high school, you will finish far back in the pack and frankly have blown one of the greatest opportunities in your lifetime.
Perhaps surprisingly, short of trying to answer questions about her specific interests, that is all the advice I’d offer. When a student selects a liberal arts college, in most cases they are making a deliberate choice. Sometimes students fall in love with the beauty of a campus and are surprised to learn that liberal arts colleges don’t have nursing programs or courses in fashion design. Yet the vast majority of students coming to liberal arts colleges are intellectually curious, highly academically motivated, and flat out interesting young women and men.
At liberal arts colleges that place their highest priority on student achievement, these students flourish by learning on their own, from peers and faculty, and from experiences beyond the cloistered campus walls. Those tuition dollars come back to parents in immense interpersonal dividends and return to society in the meaningful contributions this next generation of liberally educated citizens makes throughout their lifetimes.

